by Michael W. Sherer, thriller author
Ask women to name something that drives them crazy about men, and I bet 90 percent will say that we don’t talk enough.
So, it’s surprising to me that I have so much trouble coming up with topics to talk about here and on my own blog. I’m often tempted to leave a blank page where my blog is supposed to be, just to see if readers are paying attention.
Or writing a Zen blog that would say: “This is my blog post.” I did that once in college on a final exam in comparative religion. We studied various religions in China, and on the final, my professor asked us to define Zen Buddhism. I wrote something to the effect that by its very nature Zen Buddhism defied description so I couldn’t answer the question. I got a B+ on the final and for the course.
Since authors write about the things that ignite their passion, what else am I passionate about? My beautiful wife, but that’s a private matter. Tennis, after a fashion, but you don’t really want to hear about the exploits of an aging, mediocre tennis player. Strangely, (or maybe not so strange), we tend to be most passionate about the things that irk us as opposed to the things we love. Perhaps we’re just more vocal about our pet peeves than our “Likes.” J
They (whoever “they” are) do say that it takes ten good reviews of a business to counteract the ill effects of a single bad review. I don’t know that the same is true of books. I think when it comes to art (being more subjective) people like to make up their own minds as opposed to being told by a reviewer whether or not to like a book (or painting or movie, etc.).
But when I think of the things my wife and I talk about in the evenings when we’re eating dinner or watching television (see, I do talk, even though I’m a guy), the subjects we discuss most vociferously are the little things that drive us crazy—mismanaged government projects that end up costing taxpayers far more than originally estimated (like ObamaCare or the 520 bridge and Highway 99 tunnel here in Seattle); mass shootings that seem to increase in number each year like mushrooms after a rain (WTF is wrong with these people!); idiot drivers on the freeway (don’t get either one of started…); poor sportsmanship on the tennis courts (I warned you, don’t get either one of us started…); teenagers (enough said); the aging process (please, don’t get me started…); poor customer service (what’s not to dislike?); lack of common courtesy, civility and manners in this country (what’s the matter with kids—and adults—these days?); and many other topics.
What we should be most passionate about are the positive, wonderful blessings in our lives—we’re still healthy enough to play tennis; we can laugh at ourselves as we deal with the crap that comes with aging; we have each other to love and share life with; teenagers eventually grow back into humans; there are still considerate, kind, giving people in the world who make it a better place for the rest of us, etc., etc.
But I still can’t think of a blog topic. Is that a guy thing? Or just me? And what is it you’d like me to talk about? Anything in particular? Any burning questions, class?
Michael W. Sherer is the author of Night Tide, the second novel in the Blake Sanders thriller series. The first in the Seattle-based series, Night Blind, was nominated for an ITW Thriller Award in 2013. His other books include the award-winning Emerson Ward mystery series, the stand-alone suspense novel, Island Life, and the Tess Barrett YA thriller series.
He and his family now reside in the Seattle area. Please visit him at www.michaelwsherer.com or you can follow him on Facebook at www.facebook.com/thrillerauthor and on Twitter @MysteryNovelist.
I don't think it's a guy thing at all ;)ReplyDelete
The three reasons I decided not to blog when I started publishing in 2012 were
1. Time constraints,
2. I didn't feel I had enough publishing and writing experience under my belt yet to blog,
3. What was I going to blog about?! (I don't even have a pet I can take humorous pictures of, although my neighbour does have a gorgeous cat that I could "borrow"!)
Having said that, I think you've touched upon several interest topics in this blog post, especially those dinner conversation topics.
As my husband says I'm a "woman of many words." But after blogging for seven years, I'm occasionally stumped for a subject that will appeal to crime-fiction readers. But politics and all the other stuff I'm passionate about? I could write a blog a day until I day and never say it all.ReplyDelete
I think the thing readers want to know about us is... US. That would include those things we're passionate about. I know it's scary to take a position for fear of offending some readers, but I think we're skilled enough to present our feelings in a thoughtful way rather than an extremist, alienating way.ReplyDelete
My husband is notoriously tight-lipped. Some might call him laconic. You know, those people with thesauruses. But hand him a beer and ask him about sports (the Lakers or Angels are good starters) and he's Mr. Chatty.ReplyDelete
So... Michael, can I offer you a beer?