By Andrew E. Kaufman
A long time ago (very long) in a land far away (well, not so
far, really) there was a little boy named Andrew (that’s me), who always felt he had so
much to tell the world. The problem was, as often happens with toddlers, not
much of what he said made a whole lot of sense, and as also often happens with
toddlers, when the audience grew thin, it only intensified his determination to
spread The Gospel According to Andrew. In other words, Andrew was a chatty
little boy. In other words, you couldn’t shut him up, even if you wanted to.
I guess you could say I developed a bit of a complex over
this.
Then one day, my grandmother sealed the deal when she bought
me my first book. It was called Nobody
Listens to Andrew, and besides the fact I was sure it was written
exclusively about me, and besides the fact that it trumpeted my tragic story, I also discovered
something else very important: the true value of the written word.
After that, I was unstoppable.
I became obsessed with that book to where I’d make my
grandmother read it to me every night. I’m pretty sure I had it memorized word-for-word—I’m also pretty sure she did, too, even though she probably wished she
hadn't
Eventually, I moved on to other great literary works. I think
Curious George came next, and after
that, I developed a penchant for the Dark Side with Where the Wild Things Are. Needless to say, a thriller writer was
born.
By then, I was pretty confident I knew what my path in life
would be. I would someday write The Great American Novel—you know, much in the
tradition of Nobody Listens to Andrew
and the like.
The point of all this (I know you were probably wondering if
there was one) is that, as writers, we all come from the same place. We have
stories to tell and an intense desire to share them with the world, and while
we’d love to make a living at it, most of us would still tell our stories
anyway, because really, it’s not about numbers—it’s about The Journey, the unmitigated joy
we feel each time we open a blank page and watch our imaginary worlds come to
life. That’s where the magic begins.
I think on an intellectual level we know that, but on an
emotional one, we often forget it. We become obsessed with sales rankings,
reviews, how many Facebook likes we have, and lots of other silly things that
in fact have nothing to do with why we became writers in the first place.
The moral of Andrew's story, and maybe yours too, is that whether you sell a lot of books or you don’t, success is only fleeting if you define it within those parameters.
But if you don't, there’s one thing that nobody can ever take away, and that one thing is
your love for the written word.
And because of that, no matter what, you will always be successful.
Listen to Andrew. The dude knows.
Thanks for the reminder not to focus on the silly things. The Journey—the process—is what's important. It's what provides the joy.
ReplyDeleteAh, The Process...how can we ever forget that one?
DeleteWise words, Drew! Thanks for making me stop and think about what's important. And kudos to your grandmother for giving you that book!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Jodie. I was fortunate enough to be born into a family that loved literature. I feel like I was destined to someday write it.
DeleteWell said, Andrew. And look at you now...Everybody's listening to Andrew!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Teresa. I guess I found a more subtle way to do it. Screaming at people just annoyed them ;)
DeleteStorytelling is a powerful and positive addiction. I wish I had discovered that earlier. But my love of writing nonfiction started as soon as crafted my first sentence, so I relate.
ReplyDeleteI hear that, LJ. Like you, I first pursued life as a journalist, and while I got to write, I eventually realized I'd taken a wrong turn. It took a while to get back on track, but I know I'm where I belong now.
DeleteWonderfully, imaginative way of getting your point across. I'm pretty sure I not only heard what you said (and a timely message it is!)but came away from reading the post with a nostalgic smile. Kudos to you for sticking with it, even when no one was listening. And thanks for reminding us about what is truly important.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Linda. Amazing how important those first books can be during childhood, and how they leave an indelible mark on our lives.
DeleteWhat a delightful post, Andrew! Really from the heart and so smart. And praise be to that wise grandmother for giving you the warm support of a book that told YOUR story long before you were able to do it yourself.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Susan. It really was a special book for me, and apparently for lots of others as well--it's amazing how more than fifty years later, it's still very popular with children. I guess some messages are timeless.
DeleteDrew, you kill me! Such a fun post, and a real insight into how a writer is born. We all listen to you now. By the way, IS there a bear upstairs in your room? Cause, I can call an exterminator if you need one. Or Goldilocks. I hear she's good with bear removal.
ReplyDeleteDo you know how many years I checked under the bed for bears? After all, it was very important to listen to Andrew. To date, I'm happy to report the bedroom is bear-free. Thankfully :)
DeleteI guess thriller writers are allowed to raise real smiles of joy. I remember Danny Dunn and the Homework Machine and I think a Tom Corbett, Space Cadet. And lots of comic books. I may have learned to read because I wanted to know what Superman was saying to Batman.
ReplyDeleteI started with poetry.
This got me thinking. How many stories do we tell ourselves, stories we write down someplace - in an alternate reality that just doesn't make it onto paper or screen?
We tell stories because we want to be listened to. First, as you say, we want to hear our own voices. Then we want others to hear them.
Thanks for a post both whimsical and poignant.
Thanks for your comments, David. I think many of us started out as casual readers and then felt inspired enough to take that experience to the next level, or maybe even recognized a certain degree of raw creative ability within ourselves. Either way, I'm glad I got here and had a lot of fun taking The Journey.
DeleteAndrew - This was, by far, the best way to describe what most of my radio show guests have tried to explain to me and my listeners on Authors on the Air radio. What a delightful and thoughtful blog you have written. I look forward to talking to you about this next week on the air.
ReplyDeletePam Stack
Host
Authors on the Air
Looking forward to it as well, Pam!
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